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Are You Designing Your Days?


For years, I went about my days trying to remember what it was I had to accomplish for the day. Did it work? Sometimes, when my memory decided it wanted to remember, but too often it didn’t. I didn’t get everything done. Not because I didn’t have the time, but because at the end of the day, I had forgotten something.
It’s so important to start your day by writing down what you plan to accomplish for the day. As you complete a task, highlight it. I’ve found that highlighting the completed task, has a more positive “effect” on the psyche than crossing it off. It looks better and it implies a bright outcome. “x” and crossing out tends to look sloppy, and usually implies something is forbidden or not good. I’ve only been implementing that particular process for a few months now, but I love it. It works!
Here are 5 simple ways to assure you complete your tasks in the time “gifted” to you in any given day. Hint: We all have 24 hours in a day, but most of us only use between 12 and 16. Leaving us with 8 hours for a good night’s rest! Yeah right…I’m getting better though.
1. First things first… You need a way to keep track of your daily tasks. Find a simple system for keeping track of what you have to do (Get a set of highlighters too). Some people find that their PDA’s work best (for those that may not know what a PDA is, that’s your Personal Digital Assistant. (Many phones function as such now, i.e. Iphone’s, Blackberry’s etc.)
For me, a calendar “system” (I found mine at Target and it’s GREAT!) with tabs and sections for the various “departments” in life & business works best. I also prefer dated calendars. If it’s undated, I tend to want to fill in the dates for months ahead, and it just wastes time. Of course you can purchase what you prefer, but the less time spent “preparing” the system for use, the better.
My “system” consists of a calendar, with a normal monthly view (open block for writing due dates etc.), weekly view with daily timed layout and “to do” slots for each day along the bottom, with one for the week on the right. It also has a Task list for your most important monthly projects at the end of each month’s section.
I love it, and use it, everyday.
Of course, it also boasts the typical Address Book, an additional Task section with a sufficient amount of sheets, a Business Section with Meeting Planner Pages, Client File & Contact Log.
There’s a section labeled “Personal” where you can keep passwords for important accounts (if you’re comfortable with that), Website Tracker, Special Days, Health and Fitness Tracker, Automobile Servicing/Information, and Monthly “Budget” Worksheets. There’s also a “Notes” section with a sufficient amount of Notes pages. I still haven’t run out, and I’m a serious note writer :-) .
Now, I know I said a simple system, and even though it sounds like this system is extensive, it is simple, in that, it makes life more simple because it keeps things organized. I do use my blackberry, as well, in conjunction with my calendar. The alarm is a great tool for reminders…
Since we’ve taken care of the all important, step #1, and you’ve decided on the tool that would work best for you…let’s get on with #2, in our 5 simple step system.
Note: Please stop writing your lists on random pieces of paper. You can’t keep track as well, as you move through your week, and you usually aren’t able to go back and track your progress because the paper has been misplaced.
2. Assess your situation, daily. Be conscious of the most important tasks or projects you need to complete for the day. If you’ve invested in a calendar system like the one above, you probably have much of your week planned out.
If there’s an ongoing project, decide what steps you need to take TODAY to move closer to the finished project.
Please be realistic! All too often, I’ve looked at my day, and assumed I could accomplish more than I realistically could. You set yourself up for disappointment when you over extend yourself. I don’t want you to limit yourself, but I want you to be realistic, and if it’s a project that needs to be done in stages, then by all means…break it up! That also gives you time to complete other projects and tasks that can be done in your 12-16 hours!
3. Now pay attention, this is what I consider the most critical step. Write it down! Writing it down reinforces what needs to be done. It makes it real, and it holds you accountable. Your brain works well with a written “plan”. It registers with your brain in a different way when you are writing it out. Not to mention, you now have a point of reference.
Sometimes writing your list before you retire for the evening is a great way to assure you don’t get caught up in the morning activities, forgetting to write your tasks down for the day. You may even rush through and forget something. You can always add to it later, if need be, and if time permits…more on that in step #4.
4. Allot a specific amount of time, and coordinate with any appointments that you may have scheduled. Your tasks and projects are not appointments, but treat them as such, that way, you can design your day.

Your appointments should obviously be scheduled, and usually in advance. Stay tuned for my tips on setting appointments & meetings.
5. Last, but certainly not the least of the 5 steps…this is the reason we went through steps 1-4 in our 5 simple steps, right?
Get It Done!…and highlight each task as you complete it.
It feels so good to highlight the tasks as you complete them. You feel a sense of accomplishment, and look forward to completing your next days “assignments”.
Your days, weeks and months become much more productive, which lead to more productive years…and without a doubt, a more productive life.
One more tip: A BONUS! Just for you…
Life happens…there will be times when, no matter how prepared you are, or organized in your planner, pda, mind, or life, you won’t be able to get it all done; given it was doable to begin with, and you didn’t overextend yourself, or overestimate your ability to get it done.
Either way, at those moments, take a deep breath, re-assess the situation realistically (depending on the roadblock), apologize to anyone who may have been depending on that “thing” being done, forgive yourself, DON’T beat yourself up, and MOVE FORWARD. You didn’t spend the time getting it all together, to fall apart now! Go back over the steps and try to fit it into the next days tasks. Maybe you’ll have to move something that may not be as important, or DELEGATE, you can even outsource, if possible.
No matter what you decide, it’s your task/project, therefore, it’s your choice. You control how you handle it from that point.
You are SOOOOO capable of designing your days, weeks, months and years! As you design your days, YOU, in essence ARE designing the life you deserve!
Our time on earth is not eternal…live each day to it’s fullest, and challenge yourself to be all you were created to be!

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Zig Ziglar | Change Your Attitude and Change Your Life!

Zig Ziglar teaches people all over the world the fundamentals of sales and success. Here he tells a story of a woman with a negative attitude who hated her job, shifted her attitude and changed her life.


President Clinton Endorses Direct Sales/Network Marketing

One of my Business Partners sent this over to me this morning,
and I wanted to share it with you.


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What is Your Definition of Success?

What is your Definition of Success?

For some, Success is having the Beautiful Home with all the Bells and whistles, fine cars, accompanied by tons of moolah!

Maybe it could mean traveling the world without having to be concerned with when you’ve got to get back to that J.O.B (Just Over Broke) :-( .

How about the mother, whose children have all graduated college, and gone on to be Doctors and Lawyers; or that they just graduated :-) .

Or the child who just hit his or her first home run.

Of course for others it could be getting an “A” on a math test after struggling with C’s and D’s for months.

Whatever success is for you, make sure, it’s your definition and not the definition of someone else.

Often times we struggle to please others because of their expectations. Even if it’s not a struggle, we may go about life on a daily basis doing what others expect of us,  instead of what we expect of ourselves.

Don’t define your Successes by what others think they should be. Blaze your  own trail, however fiery, and make it matter for you.

SUCCESS, as defined in Merriam Webster: 1. a degree or measure of succeeding 2. : favorable or desired outcome ; also : the attainment of wealth, favor, or eminence 3. : one that succeeds.

Make sure that whatever goal you set, whatever task you partake in, whatever outcome you desire is defined by your standards, not the standards of others.

Be excited about your successes! Be thankful for your opportunities! Be confident in your choices!…and you will see more of what you desire, and define as Success, be present in your life.

In the final analysis, you have to live with your decisions, so make sure they are yours…

To your continued SUCCESS!

Aiyana

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Happy 2009!!!!!

I sent an email out to my family at www.AbsoluteIndependence.com, and I thought it fitting to post it to the blog as well:

I am excited!!! 2009 is here and we must not accept anymore excuses; from ourselves or others.

It’s a time for change; in more ways than one, and we must be willing to do our part.

Although times are tough for many, this is also a time for renewing our spirits and our minds. In doing so, we will bring about opportunities that we never knew possible; or maybe we did, but for some reason “circumstances” kept us from our destiny.

Let’s challenge ourselves to be our best selves this new year.

Don’t be afraid to step out on a limb for something you believe in.

Be open to new and exciting ideas.

Don’t be afraid to network!

…and most importantly be true to yourself!

The time is now! Live  each day to the fullest, Enjoy life, and Explore possibilities.

Our time on earth is not eternal, make it matter!

To your Massive Success in 2009 and beyond…

Aiyana McClellan & the AI Team

QUALITY OF LIFE BEGINS IN YOUR MIND

It’s not what you have, but what you enjoy that constitutes your abundance.
Your real riches are riches in your head and heart.

Wealth without enjoyment is little consolation.
True satisfaction comes from appreciating what you have.

There are two ways of being happy:
you must either diminish your wants or augment your means.

It’s always better to appreciate things you cannot have
than to have the things you cannot appreciate.

Your riches will always lie within you, not in your material possessions.
 

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YOU CAN RISE ABOVE REALITY

Courage is the power to face your difficulties.
It comes from the reserves of your mind that are more powerful
then any of your outside circumstances.
 
When you recognize that you are bigger than your problems,
you gain the courage necessary to overcome anything.
 
Your obstacles will look large or small to you according to
whether you are large or small.
Courage is the capacity to confront what can be imagined.
It gives you the ability to rise above reality.
 
You are more important than any of your problems.

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